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In today’s digital age, it’s nearly impossible to scroll through social media without stumbling into a heated political debate. We’ve all seen it: someone posts a passionate rant about how the “other side” is destroying everything, and before long, the comment section erupts into arguments filled with frustration and hostility.
What most people don’t realize is that some of the memes, images, and viral posts fueling these online battles aren’t organic at all; they’re carefully engineered as part of psychological operations (PSYOPs) by foreign adversaries in countries like China, Iran, Russia, and Venezuela. Research, including a June 2022 study from Cornell University, shows that these digital campaigns are designed to manipulate emotions, deepen political divides, and destabilize communities. In Russia, the people who unknowingly spread these propaganda memes in the U.S. are even called “useful idiots” because they carry and amplify the very digital weapons created to cause chaos.
But this problem isn’t limited to politics. Having moved frequently with a military family, I’ve noticed a similar pattern in neighborhood and community Facebook groups. Posts often spiral into complaints about fences, pets, parking, or local policies. Instead of resolving issues, the constant negativity usually leaves people more bitter, divided, and exhausted. When information threatens our beliefs, emotional pain follows. That pain is not proof of the truth; it is fear of change and the refusal to consider another’s view.
So what’s really happening when we vent online or dwell on negativity? It’s more than just “sharing opinions.” Repeatedly focusing on anger, hate, or frustration activates the sympathetic nervous system, our body’s built-in “fight or flight” response. Stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline flood the system, raising heart rate, blood pressure, and muscle tension. While this response is helpful in moments of real danger, chronic activation from ongoing online conflicts can wear down both our physical and mental health. Over time, it contributes to anxiety, depression, weakened immunity, and even long-term health risks like heart disease.
A study from the University of California, San Francisco, found that chronic stress shortens telomeres (the protective caps on our DNA), which speeds up cellular aging. Another study published in Psychological Science showed that people who dwell on negative experiences have higher levels of inflammatory markers, which are linked to heart disease and depression. Even more, research in epigenetics, like work by Dr. Moshe Szyf at McGill University, demonstrates that prolonged exposure to stress and negativity can actually alter how genes are expressed, turning on those connected with anxiety, aggression, and stress reactivity.
This doesn’t just affect us in the moment. Our patterns of negativity can ripple through generations. Epigenetic changes caused by chronic stress or hate-filled focus may be passed on to children and grandchildren, increasing their predisposition toward heightened stress responses or even hostility. In other words, when we pour energy into political hate, we’re not only hurting ourselves physically and mentally, but we may also be planting seeds of anger in future generations
So what can we do? Many spiritual traditions offer guidance on how to handle anger and negativity. Buddhism emphasizes cultivating inner peace and not allowing external events to disturb our calm. Islam, through the Quran, reminds believers to practice patience and to trust that faith and stillness are stronger than anger. Christianity encourages turning the other cheek and responding with love instead of retaliation. Judaism highlights the importance of self-control and directing our energy toward our own actions rather than lashing out.
Across these traditions, the message is consistent: true strength comes from refusing to let outside chaos dictate our inner state. And ultimately, the anger and frustration we choose to dwell on often reveal more about an unresolved emotional wound within us than about the circumstances or people we project those feelings onto. In the end, we have a choice.
We can spend our energy arguing online, or we can choose to focus on what we can control: our own reactions, our own well-being, and the positive actions we can take in our real lives. By doing so, we not only protect our own mental and physical health, but we also become a more positive influence on those around us.
